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10 Reasons Why we Pushed Forward

Hubby and I were chosen to be parents in mid July. We have spent all summer long learning about our child's first family. I thought this would be a strange situation to be in, but it isn't. Our child's first family is full of interesting skills and experiences.

We jot down as much information that we can each time we met. We are creating an adoption family book to capture his story, his life. One of my best friends was adopted from Korea and she is helping me to add very important details to this book. Thanks, Em!

Less than 1 weeks from today, a baby boy is due. This little one will be loved by many people, with Hubby and I being two of them. We have taken 10 emotional and thoughtful steps to get to this stage and I wanted to share them.

These are 10 reasons that have led us to build a family; To push forward.

1. It is O.K. to be different.
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